People

I wonder sometimes that how come I understand people better than they do me?
I mean that people hardly ever try to understand you as a person.
They just label u with some adjective and thats about it!!!
I have never ever found one single person who have even tried understanding me. Not that I am one of those people who want the attention of one n all, but dunt I deserve the attention from my family, friends...???
I just instantly KNOW what they need.. Like a hug or sweet talk or a nice listenin ear...
But dunt I too feel like havin them...????
Why dunt they understand this???
Why is it that even a stranger says that he/she feels like I have known them for years??
Why cant I say that they have known me for even a few days??
Am I so complicated?
Am I so detached from this world?
Am I an alien whom you cant understand or even decipher my language?
Am I so lonely?